We All Live Here by Jojo Moyes is a raw, emotional, and realistic story of a family that has fallen apart and is only functioning through strategic use of metaphorical cellophane tape and sheer force of will.

Lila Kennedy finds herself as the head of her household after a humiliating divorce that left her career and reputation in shambles and with him multiplying his genes with one of the other school mums. She and her two daughters have support in the form of Lila’s mother’s second-husband Bill, who is still in the deep throes of grieving her unexpected death. The house is falling apart one expensive project at a time, and the landscape guy keeps bringing up more issues she needs to address but are nowhere near the top of her priority list. Then one day, Lila’s septuagenarian absent-since-she-was-4-years-old father shows up on her doorstep looking for a place to stay for awhile, unafraid to make himself at home and insert himself into absolutely everything with an annoying American charisma that seems to fool everyone else. What follows is a story about family and forgiveness and grief and perseverance, and grace, and the grit to get through the next thing and the next while somehow keeping all the juggling balls from crashing into the ground.
The family dynamics crafted in this novel felt so realistic. The quintessential example of the phrase if it’s not one thing, it’s another. The two grandpas who loved the same woman, the young daughter and her school play, the older daughter and her mean-girl school problems and rebellious streak, the dynamics with the ex-husband creating a new family apart from them and the emotional blow that strikes against them all. On top of everything else, Lila is ‘getting back out there’ as an officially over-the-hill divorcee, and the story of her romantic experiences were so brutally honest, complete with fundamental mistakes, misunderstandings, the inability to see things for what they truly are. It felt raw and honest and I really appreciated that.
This novel has a lot going on, and though certain elements felt somewhat predictable, none of it felt formulaic or cliche. In my experience, Jojo Moyes is a skillful storyteller, and this family drama is one that will keep you engaged and interested until the very last pages, leaving you with warm feelings of hope and acceptance that will fill your cup like only a good book can.
Details
Title:: We All Live Here
Author:: Jojo Moyes
Genre:: Contemporary Fiction
Publisher:: Pamela Dorman Books
Length:: 464 pages
Audio Length:: 12h 38m
Audiobook Narrator:: Jenna Coleman
Published:: February 11th, 2025
The Litertarian Rating:: 5-Stars
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