Book Review:: Who We Used to Be | Caitlin Weaver

When tragedy strikes, there is no telling how you’ll react. Not really. Even your closest relationships can be caught in the collateral damage. And they almost always bring to light the things that have gone unnoticed for too long. Who We Used to Be by Caitlin Weaver is an exploration of family and friendship while navigating difficult transitions, and tragedy.

Who We Used to Be by Caitlin Weaver Book Cover

Everything is unraveling at the Blair house. Dana’s business, Dana’s marriage, Dana’s relationship with her son. Her daughter is the only one she doesn’t have to worry about, an overachiever in everything she does. That is, until she collapses at school. Luckily, her best friend and next door neighbor, Padma, is an ER doctor and is there for her daughter’s intake. Everything checks out fine, until she slips into a coma hours later. It is one crisis after another for Dana, who now has to cope with the fact her dearest friend likely missed something that led to her daughter’s condition. Padma, too, is already dealing with a lot. She’s a workaholic who is up for a prestigious promotion, but this situation could jeopardize everything, even her longstanding sobriety. Their daughter’s are best friends in the same way they are themselves, but one day can change everything.

Wow. This book blew me away. Every character has something going on that adds to the drama and intrigue of this novel, and everyone is just trying to cope with their new reality. Dana’s son’s story line was especially touching. More of a risk taker to start with, he doesn’t handle his twin sister’s absence from his life well. He was written with such nuance and compassion, my heart goes out to him. Strange, perhaps to say that about a fictional character, but this book feels absolutely real.

I am beyond impressed with this novel. It’s a family saga condensed into a handful of months during their most difficult time. It’s compelling as hell, the tension is high, but it isn’t some mystery thriller psycho-on-the-loose situation. There is no blatant crime or bad intentions. It’s real family drama. It’s fascinating, and I think it will appeal to all kinds of readers. I can’t wait to dig into Caitlin Weaver’s backlist! If this novel is any indication, she’s a force to be reckoned with!

Note:: I received an early copy of this book from the publisher through netgalley in exchange for an honest review. All opinions are my own.

Details

Title:: Who We Used to Be
Author:: Caitlin Weaver
Genre:: Contemporary Fiction
Publisher:: Storm Publishing
Length:: 420 pages
Published:: July 29th, 2025
The Litertarian Rating:: 5-Stars